I allowed my daughter to go meet some online friends and go to a state fair IRL as a graduation gift. By that time, I had graduated college and was in a one bedroom apartment barely making enough money to survive. From the short updates to the long sagas, we've got you covered! [Update] AITA for not trying harder to let my ex know our son passed. I don’t know. We have a daughter (9F) 'Chloe'. She will now believe you're still lying to cover that she is ugly. I would have left him earlier had I not become pregnant. He receives benefits. We have not been together since she was born. INFO = need more info to make a verdict. Throwaway bc I don’t want family drama affiliated w my main account lmao Context: I’m (29m) my husband is (27m) and we have a 2 year old son. And my daughter has inherited those features. That Jesse was just an awful man, and a coward. For years you've told her she's beautiful and now you're saying "i was lying. Then my sister has two half sisters, a step sister and two step brothers. ) So, I (38F) have 2 daughters and 1 stepdaughter to my husband (42M) My stepdaughter (16F) is the artsy type, she owns a lot of paints, pencils ect to draw, and this summer she was Edit- my child’s father is NOT my husband. I don't know if anyone remembers me but I made a post a few weeks back. I don't want him around me. So I no longer try to convince my daughter that she's as beautiful as her sisters. My (34F) daughter (12F) has been acting uncooperative in the context of the planning process for my wedding. We never married. Hi everyone, I just wanted to update you all as a lot of you seemed concerned. I have to put myself first, or else I cannot give my best to the child at the center of the issue. For context: I (35f) began dating my husband (35m) over 10 years ago. My sister thinks a dress isn’t worth making a bride sad. Nov 4, 2023 · You're not an honest person. That’s why my daughter was so upset about me not getting it, because in her mind that was me finally “killing” the relationship. I understand that it’s important to you, but you are inappropriately expecting it to be just as important to everybody else. The first is that this is a first bday party. I don't like him. When school started back, she was there for junior year. It was kind of hard for her to adjust to This is difficult. I (F45) have a 14-year-old daughter, who I'll call Mikaela. If you allow her to alter it, it will still be a family heirloom -- but it won't be a vintage dress. But some Redditers think the title of the post is exaggerated. My son went from having meltdowns every single time he went into public, to not having any meltdowns in 8+ months and being better behaved than most NT children. I think you're within your rights to simply tell her that the dress Finally, my son was born and received the last of the stuffed animals I had set aside so many years ago. But for right now, she says she wants them to live with the consequences so hasn’t had any contact with them. Ok-Toe-5157. She doesn't want to live separately from Aaron. Which is twenty one adults. Many of you were suggesting therapy for her so at least she already had that down. Backstory, when my daughter ‘Georgia’ was 13, her mother and I divorced. You’re not TA for wanting to change your daughter’s name, but I can understand why they’re upset to think of the name her late mother chose for her being erased. When you're ready to spread, it's just like frosting -- only you have to work fast! Pop it back in the freezer and get a pitcher of warm water for your offset spatula. I have always dreamed of walking her down the aisle (my husband passed when she was a child) and she enjoyed talking about a future wedding and playing bride when she was a child My founder had 5 kids, out of them only 1 girl. She believes I am wrong to judge her so I want some perspective. Keep in mind these girls will have own personalities, thoughts, and feelings - and you'll have to parent them with as much love as your own. I agreed and my daughter came in the evening to pick up the embroidered parts. Keeps forgetting to do things I ask him to do. So now, she has two dolls: Mirabel (given to her by Nat's husband) and "Crazybel", her older twin sister. I'll add the link to the previous post at the bottom. " (I am setting things up with MY youngest daughter (3f) the same way I did with my twins. As I understand, the younger one (getting married) is 5’1” while the mother and older sister both stand approx 5’6” - so the dress is too long for younger sister and she needs to shorten the hem. Throwaway account. May 6, 2024 · When you pass on its fate will be unknown. May 28, 2024 · "AITA for not allowing my daughter to significantly alter my wedding dress?" My (44f) daughter (25f) is getting married later this year to her girlfriend (27f). Find out if you were wrong or right in an argument. I am very attracted to my husband and find him handsome. I have been engaged for almost six months and the wedding is happening in eight so this was the moment to start the selection of the Bridesmaid Dresses. NAH. Also he stopped eating properly. My (44f) daughter (25f) is getting married later this year to her girlfriend (27f) I have always dreamed of walking her down the aisle (my husband passed when she was a child) and she enjoyed talking about a future wedding TreatFamiliar2448. She tried to prevent us from communicating and ADMIN MOD. I support my The OP of ‘AITA for completely altering my daughter’s face’ is receiving overwhelming support from fellow parents on Reddit as they think she isn’t in the wrong for punishing her child. I haven’t heard anything since. It sounds like her mother completely ignored her escalating behaviour and didn't get her the help she quite obviously needs. Scholarships can be lost because of external things, not even just daughter not getting expected grades or changing schools (funding can fall thru, some scholarships are only for first year and not future years). She stayed in the car while her fiancé came to pick up the dress. Originally posted in r/AmItheAsshole by u/throwaway-itried. The games are $120 for two. My oldest daughter and I had a disagreement recently. We just hug each other. It has been extremely hard on her. AITA for making my daughter shower in PE? Throwaway account for personal reasons. She has always had an attitude with me since she was younger but I attribute that to our different personalities and As I said in one of my comments, we probably have around $50-$100 before payday, sometimes our checking accounts are as low as $13. I am white, and my husband is black. Vote and comment on others' posts. YTA - You just said you and her father always tell her she is beautiful inside and out. AITA for treating my daughters different? Asshole. I have always dreamed of walking her down the aisle (my husband passed when she was a child) and she enjoyed talking about a future wedding and playing bride when she was a child Apr 24, 2023 · A father recently posted on 'Am I the Asshole' subreddit asking if he was in the wrong for blaming his daughter for not having pictures of herself. I suspect that, to them, the name was one of H’s mom’s first and last gifts to H, and it’s painful to think of her losing it. When I found out I was pregnant with a second, I decided to name her after nana Rose, who passed in 2017. I am not OOP. A couple of weeks into the school year she invited my daughter over to spend the night. ESH= "Everyone Sucks Here" Everyone involved is the asshole. My 'son' and 'daughter' deserve a good life so I put the house ownership into my daughter name so she owns it (I only owned the house not my wife) and I gave my Car to my son so when he passes his license, he can drive it and a portfolio for him to access when he's 21 and I'm going back to my home country to live near my family and start all A place where it's obvious OP is the asshole. The wedding is at a castle. My daughter’s still mad at her family, she talked to them a couple times before stopping communication. My daughter blocked me everywhere since she left. My daughter convinced her to tell me about it as she had been scared to say anything to anyone as she thought she would be judged as her dad’s girlfriend has made comments about her appearance when she was going through her health issues. My daughter was married twice. Amy has seen Toy Story a few times. I met the host family and the other kids online and did searches. Now, here's where I may be the asshole. The day after my wedding, I noticed that there were bouquets placed on the arbor that I hadn’t approved of and weren't part of my original vision. To give background, me and my daughter live in a 2B2B house. "Update: AITA for not allowing my daughter to significantly alter my wedding dress" Comfortable_Love8350. I also explained that it is not a nice feeling to be left out and I feel under appreciated. Daycare is too expensive so my husband 35m reluctantly agreed to stay home. I'm planning on giving in and letting my daughter use our home for the wedding later this year. My wife got a job opportunity in one of her employers field offices and it was too good to pass up. First off,I'd like to thank everyone for your care and support,I never thought I'd cry after My husband passed away sadly when she was 4. Update: I went to my daughter and apologised for not going to her graduation. by this time, my finance (35f) (who has a greats relationship with my daughter who i’ll call olive) and i were already engaged and had put a deposit down for UPDATE: AITA for “favouring” my step son? UPDATE. I started calling my mom to come help since he's been too busy to do simple things. I (F35) am married to my husband (M36). I didn’t actually disinherit my daughter it’s just what my wife and her claims. I had very specific ideas about the arbor's design, and seeing it altered was disheartening, especially since my wedding photos will now not reflect my original design. He has now provided an update, stating that he printed off all the pictures and put them in an album. When A was going through her issues, I made it clear to her and my daughter that our home is a judgement I have a fairly positive update. We got her another therapist to help her understand more about herself as well as accept the past bullying. Not the A-hole. update. But knows of my husband who had passed away. YTA= "You're the asshole" OP is the asshole and the other person isn't. I got a custom made goth wedding dress. I do thank my husband for allowing me access to our checking, even when it came to seeking legal counsel. She has a daughter, Nora (13f). Jan 16, 2024 · "AITA for staying neutral in a situation between my son and my daughter + wife?" Here's the original post: This all started a couple of years ago and it completely split our family apart. It'll be much easier to clean up the edges of the cake with a warm blade. so, 5 moths ago my (33f) daughter (14) was hit by a drunk driver resulting in paralysis. Obviously, this has created a rift between my daughter and I. I'm in my 70s. Jesse has never treated Bailey wrong at all. We have kids together including my daughter (19f) and my teen son. I was very disappointed in her and expressed this to her as well as my opinion that she is a terrible mother. I'll try to keep it brief. Some background; my wife and I worked and lived in a somewhat larger city where my daughter was born. I lost touch with my family in my early 20s after coming out. I have a nonverbal autistic child and changing the way you communicate and deal out consequences drastically helps. AITA for telling my daughter she cannot marry a racist? Asshole. She didn't want to throw her original Mirabel away or give her to someone else. I named my oldest "Annabelle", after nanny Annie, whose full name was also Annabelle. •. I did not name her after nana Rose as at the time she was born, nana Rose was still with us. AITA for sticking to my (29M) guns when it came to our Daughter's name. Kara knows she’ll forgive them eventually. I posted recently about my daughter surprising me by wanting to turn my wedding dress into a suit, which I refused despite having promised her because the reality hurt me. I raised my daughter mostly as a single mom. Plus I'm wearing a lace cape and a black tiara. The school counselors can be a good resource for therapists in the area who work with your daughters Final update (probably): AITA for not getting my daughter a car after she publicly disrespected me? Everyone has been asking for an update so here it is. That's not true. She’s been dealing with major depressive disorder, social anxiety, anorexia, body dysmorphic disorder, and two autoimmune diseases since she was around 12. AITA for calling my daughter a terrible mother? Not the A-hole. You will be the a-hole if you see these kids a a sort of prop for your kid, though. 1. We moved to the boonies when my daughter (Amy . But he'd come home from his shift and starts playing. Asshole. Even if that $100 was given to the teen she wouldn't be able to get an iPad. She had a great time. I changed all 3 to boys the moment they aged up to infants. ADMIN. So that's about $300 for the switch (maybe even cheaper if she got an older version, the lite version, or it used) so that equates to $150 each for the twins. Well, let me walk you through my journey and the reasonings behind such a life-altering decision. So she spend $50 extra each on the twins. His wife gave birth to a boy. AITA for not allowing my daughter to significantly alter my wedding dress? AITA for not telling my boyfriend I won money 15 years ago? We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Mysterious-System680. AITA for skipping my own birthday dinner. AITA for not allowing my daughter to significantly alter my wedding dress. Her hair has been falling out. Please stop calling me a homophobe. Even though they didn't fill the album, he made a spread on one of the pages that said 'Go make Comfortable_Love8350. Now that two more people have moved in, Jess and I thought it would be best if her son slept in my daughter’s room. Unless you want to set up a fund for her as well. Aug 30, 2023 · The OP of ‘AITA for completely altering my daughter’s face’ is receiving overwhelming support from fellow parents on Reddit as they think she isn’t in the wrong for punishing her child. Federal_Weather3786. Now his wife gave birth to 3 children total, 1 boy and then 2 twins (also boys). NAH= "No assholes Here" nobody is the asswhole. Join the community of moral philosophers and share your dilemmas. She said if she had only been a better daughter, he would have not felt that way. We gave the doll a bath, and though we couldn't get the nail polish off, Amy decided to keep her. That we should lock up our valuables and hope for the best. Jun 24, 2024 · Later, my sister called me to talk and she then asked me that now I might as well give the parts that weren’t ruined to my daughter so the dress could at least be useful. Reddit posts It became clear as I read comments that I was being taken advantage of, and while I feel for my cousins problems, I am not responsible for and cannot fix them. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole. My daughter's wedding took place in October last year. It broken my heart, to see her that way. He drinks a lot of coffee to stay concentrated and awake. I (F49) am a single mother with two daughters, Jess (28F) and Jennie (17F). Mar 3, 2024 · Four days later, the OP returned with an update. They reached out right after my son was born talking about joys of family and can we reconnect they wanna be grandparents and all. So I (34F) have been with my fiancé Jesse (35M) for 8 years. I have always dreamed of walking her down the aisle (my husband passed when she was a child) and she enjoyed talking about a future wedding and playing bride when she was a child, picking flowers and colours and venues. Those real human hair wigs that are really expensive. The guy is about 10 years older than her. My first wife had drug problems and still got primary custody of our son. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. He also told me, that my wife has defended me for years, and years, that she didn’t “betray my trust” but she told the story of my A Reddit story about ‘my dementia brain mother-in-law’ has resurfaced on the discussion platform as users debate whether or not the writer is in the wrong. My daughter said she didn't want to wear a dress like that I was fine with that. Which, then, rounds the total count of people to fifty (fifty one if you count me). Even so, I simply don't want to live with Aaron. AITA - for allowing my daughter on an IPad. Don't give away her money because stepfather and ex wife didn't plan accordingly. For both my daughter and son's high school graduations, I surprised them with the duplicates, for them to take to college with them and compare against the stuffies they've been loving on their whole It’s because my youngest has eloped with her boyfriend. Now she is angry telling everyone that i am a cold hearted hag who hates her. r/AmItheAsshole. ORIGINAL by u/7227throwaway. My wedding dress is a black ball gown with a lot of lace detail and corset back. I didn’t want to uproot Georgia, therefore they kept the house and I moved into a nearby apartment. I (40f) was a single mother to my daughter, Amy (15f). I won’t be changing my mind about naming my daughter this name. After a few months of my daughter refusing to talk to me, my wife saw how I was being affected by the situation and said I should just let my daughter use our home without any restrictions. Update: AITAH for ghosting my girlfriend’s daughter after my girlfriend cheated on me. When we married, my wife and I agreed that I would sell my house and move into hers because there’s more living space. " You can defend OP all you want, but the reality is she blames her daughter for her continued trauma, is putting her own emotional needs first, is blaming her daughter for why she's moving, and is now wishing a certain degree of suffering onto her daughters life so that she will "grow up" and Humble-Ostrich-4446. We all live together as I have full custody of my daughter. A crazy ‘AITA’ post surrounding Being supportive of everything your child does is great, BUT it can also cause a deep sense of guilt in the child if he/she is caught up in doing something wrong, and lying about it to keep you happy. AITA for changing my wedding venue to better accommodate my daughter? Not the A-hole. I chose the oldest (who was a boy) to be the heir. It’s important to know that he’s been unemployed since 2021. You threw the covers off of this situation by being honest with her, and damnit, that should count for something. To answer the pressing question on everyone's mind, no, I don't believe I'm the asshole ADMIN MOD. She settled down a lot and our relationship improved. You've likely clicked on this article, eyebrow raised, wondering how someone could drastically alter their daughter's face. My daughter wouldn’t just borrow it either. All of the siblings rounded up have partners who were present bar two. I was young and didn’t fight her on custody and when he got older we weren’t close so I felt awkward asking him to live with us. For context, we are a mixed race couple. I was fine with this deal but we both had a veto in case we didn't like the Agree with this 100%. When it was just us, my daughter and I each had our own rooms. AITA for yelling at my mother because she straightened my daughter's hair. She's at least on speaking terms with us again. I think what set my oldest off is that her fiancé comes from money, and the wedding will be stupid lavish. I'd go above and beyond for my daughter and the baby, they can stay as long as they need, but not him. I'm not doing it for her daughter) Anyway, I have given him a few weeks to figure out what he wants. So even though I didn’t want to communicate with my ex ever again, I did it May 30, 2024 · She sends me about 4-5 names off her list each day. AITA for euthanizing my daughters emotional support animal for her own sake? Asshole. Though there isn’t really much to tell. And your daughter would like to incorporate it into her wedding outfit, but she doesn't want it to be a dress anymore. I have things of my parents that no one wants. She considers Jesse her father. I regret being involved with him because he is why I was introduced and became addicted to drugs. So last month Eli and I were hanging out in the living room There were excuses , and she finally said, "I have to save money to my daughter(6 almost 7F). You can't predict the future. However, my youngest husband has a lot more money, and he wholeheartedly supports my daughter’s artistic temperament. But objectively, he doesn't have traditional "beautiful" features. The host family was wonderful, and sent frequent updates and photos. Please do not harass OOP. You don't want it completely melted -- should still stick to your bowl. I had Jess when I was in college and unfortunately, her father passed away when she was 2. Feb 28, 2024 · "AITA for not allowing my daughter to significantly alter my wedding dress?" My (44f) daughter (25f) is getting married later this year to her girlfriend (27f). Like help fix his daughter's toys/take turns in changing diapers etc. Stepson already had his own room, so my daughter got And worse is that my wife and stepdaughter are now being accused of trying to ruin my daughter's wedding when they haven't played any part in it. AITA. I do not regret my daughter. TemperatureUnited919. I also know that our state has a lot of self help legal/ legal aid resources. Before I had Chloe, I ensured to learn as much as I could May 28, 2024 · My (44f) daughter (25f) is getting married later this year to her girlfriend (27f). My daughter is my life no matter what her name is. ADMIN MOD. If she is taking the bodice off dress, let her do that, and sew it back on later. I completely agree. I came out 3 years ago and married my wife Jenna (42f) last year. Georgia is now 17 and resides with her mother. When my wife (31F) and I (29M) were trying to get pregnant, we had a deal that if we have a boy, she would get to choose the full name and if we had a daughter I would. AITA for making daughter uncomfortable. This is way beyond a teen acting out irresponsibly. AITA for “kidnapping” my baby, causing my husband to have a panic attack. I couldn’t go with her because I’d broken my ankle. AITA for altering my Stepdaughers appearance. I 29 f recently started working again after having my daughter (4m). (I haven’t ever used Reddit but I’ve seen people get honest feedback so here I am. I did go to reach out, but saw she had blocked me. I reassured her, that wasn’t the case at all. Hey everyone. She is much bigger than me and she just wants t use the fabric and alter it, irreversibly because she’s a size 14 and the dress is a 4. You're just average". That’s why my wife was so adamant on me getting the car for my daughter. May 28, 2024 · Basically, you want your wedding dress to remain a dress. Per the advice given, I confronted my cousin directly and tried to talk things out. It helped my relationship with my adolescent daughter when her therapist who was very supportive with her gently pointed out that some of my daughter's expectations for me were unrealistic. Posted by u/KindheartednessFast - 21 votes and 43 comments When daughter put school above serving mommy and step-dad, mommy knew her plans to make the daughter the live in nanny when the new baby came along were going up in smoke so what does mommy do, pull tuition and make daughter pay rent and thus become dependent on the good graces of mommy. Check out CapCut’s various templates on aita for completely altering my daughters face update part2, including DAUGHTER (IA) 👩‍👧 by WEVERTONHSILVA⚡|SV|⚡, Baby Face by [PL]Ashey Ash They’ve been getting more tense since Jess and her son, Eli (8M) have moved in two months ago. Reply reply. That's easy to fix. Mikaela has barely hit puberty and is less developed than the majority of her peers, which I believe is something she May 7, 2024 · Answer 2: The risks of cosmetic surgery for children are the same as the risks of cosmetic surgery for adults. Since that was yellow gen, he didn't have siblings. Mu stepdaughter Eli (9) has cancer. You're NTA if you fully understand your duties and role as foster parent. My sister, "Lucy", got pregnant about 5 months before me. Our daughter is still angry with us, although we understand why. AITA for making my daughter share her presents with my stepdaughter? Asshole. (Using a throwaway because I have family members on Reddit) My daughter recently turned 20. I’ll try to keep this shortI’ve been married to my wife for over a year now, have a stepson (14m) and a biological daughter (9f). In addition, cosmetic surgery can have a negative impact on a child's self-esteem and relationships. Currently, I’m still paying only the mortgage. My daughter Bailey is (14F). We decided to do that theme but more Royal and gothic. But I'm going to tell my wife and stepdaughter not to be around for it. My wife is furious with me and has demanded that I return the kitten, our daughter cried so much overhearing this I have usually acquiese to her but this time I put my foot down and said absolutely not I understand she's overwhelmed but our daughter deserves a little bit of joy in her life for once, and as she gets older she will be able to NTA = "Not the asshole" OP is not the asshole but the other person is. Because she's right that as her mother I don't see her how she sees herself. My ex was a SAHM, I continued paying all the bills for two years. and she said no based on B and her father’s messages, and my daughter is just grasping onto a reality that isn’t there. We would like to show you a description here but the site won’t allow us. Divorced with 2 kids. So a few things happened that I thought y'all needed to know. Apr 26, 2024 · I have asked her therapist, if B is being manipulated. The name is my late great grandmothers name and I have wanted to use the name since I was a teenager. We can't hold onto them forever. These risks include infection, scarring, and complications from anesthesia. So my husband and his ex-wife decided to buy her wigs. But before I start, I just wanted to say I’m sorry if I sounded a bit defensive in my replies. Jesse has always treated her sweetly and like a daughter. Then amongst everyone (my daughter and kid brother included) there was twenty nine kids. The guilt of not giving my ex’s daughter closure was eating me up, and the comments agreed that she would probably get trauma issues in the future if she didn’t get closure. So for the wedding, since we met at our city's Vampire Ball. AITA for choosing my daughter over my husband. Bailey said she forgave him, but would never forget what he said. I generally just ignore her but yesterday she sent the name that I will be naming my daughter. She finished the school year, then got married and had the baby over summer break. Your kid won’t even remember this. Superdoobiez. You expect other people to care about your child’s birthday more than you should. This is your one stop shop to find closure on all your favorite reddit drama. I’ve been getting a lot of mean messages saying really cruel things about my stepson and his family members and Aita for not allowing my daughter to significantly alter my wedding dress? #reels #RedditAITA #aitareddit #redditpost #redditaita Story time, when my daughter was a freshman in high school she got friendly with a sophomore girl who had got pregnant. Feb 25, 2024 · It's a decision that has stirred heated debates among family members and friends. My son, Z (22M), has pretty much been estranged from us since he was 18. It really sucks because perhaps with a better informed parent this 16 year old won't be having a criminal record. We're doing our best to help our daughter through her journey of self-discovery at the moment. oz li yt jo rh oj kf be cd kh